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The Lunar Problem

July 24, 2009 · 8 Comments

It was Shabb-e-Meraj a couple of days back.

As you kknow, Shabb-e-Meraj is one of the nights known to have significance, in Islamic calendar, among others such as Shabb-e-Baraat and Shabb-e-Qaddar.

I remember, in good old days, when I used to have time and when I had things to do other than sitting in front of my PC, we friends would stay late in Masjid on such nights. There used to be a Jalsa in the masjid. At the end sweets were distributed. We normally were part of the volunteer group, organizing things like getting sweets from shop to masjid, receiving guests, distributing sweets etc., intazamia as they call it. Normally there used to be 2 scenarios after the distribution; we would either run short of sweets, and nothing would remain for us, or we’ll have plenty of it left. In former case, we’d try to play graceful, as if we dont care :) , whereas in latter, we’d get lion’s share without looking nadeeda :)

After jalsa we’d sit in the mosque, offer nawafil, recite Quran and talk.

Those were the days …

Khair … this is not the topic of today’s post.

I was wondering, as we get different lunar dates in different parts of the world, i.e. it might be 27th of Rajab in Pakistan, with 28th in Saudi Arab, and 26th in some other part of the world. So … as we believe these nights are blissful, are all 27ths blissful, or is it just one of them. I hope I am making my point.

This gets particularly significant in case of Shabb-e-Qaddar, as its a special night. So special that it has got a complete surah for it. I might be wrong, but it seems its one night, and cannot be more than one. And as it is one of the odd-numbered nights in last 10 days of Ramdhan, if it is on 25th in Pakistan, it would be on 26th or 24th in some other part of the world, neither of which is an odd number.

Also, as our religious high-ups are notorious for manipulating Shawal’s moon, if in one calender year, they actually erred, that causes an error of a day in the lunar dates. For example here in UK, they dont base the Ramadhan/Shawal moon on sighting, but with the date announced in Saudi Arabia or Pakistan. How does that effect these nights?

I have no answer to this confusion, hence putting it here …

Categories: Life - as it goes by · Rants · Weired · Yaaden

Phool Babu

April 8, 2009 · 9 Comments

Its was sometime last year when I went to Kamra, to see my hospitalized cousin, with my family. On returning back we payed a visit to a family friend. They are a small family of four: Mr & Mrs family-friend (FF I would call onward), and two very cute children.  Whenever I would visit them, Mrs. FF would tell me that I resemble so much with her younger brother, and treats me as her younger brother, although I have never met him.

But this time, apart from all the affection, I learned a new term that she used for me, “Phool Babu”. I was amused to hear this, for the first time. On a bit of inquiring they revealed that, Babu is used to refer to brother in their part of the world, in village, and Phool is nick-name for her (actual) younger bro, hence Phool Babu i.e. Phool Bhaee.

I quite enjoyed this new Title.   Its quite different in its nature of composition. I mean I cannot justify all the affection, that was there when she used it for me, in the frangi-words, but anyway …

Yaaden reh jati hen … :)

I have been a bit down for the last 6-7 days, but by the grace of Allah, and with the affection of friends, things are getting normal …

And yes, a very lonnng weekend ahead.  MUF I await you.

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